It was just an ordinary day, and I felt like trying something new in bed with my girlfriend. So, I started thinking, why not give oral sex a try? I’ve heard a lot about it, but never really tried it seriously myself. I decided to do a quick search on my computer to get some tips.
I opened up Firefox and typed in something like “oral sex tips” in the search bar. But somehow, the words got all messed up and looked weird, like “tips+for+oral+sex%253F”. I guess it doesn’t really matter, the results were pretty much what I was looking for.
I found a lot of articles and even some GIFs, ha-ha! I learned that it’s important to communicate with your partner and find out what they like. Also, it’s a good idea to use some kind of barrier method, you know, for safety. I didn’t know there were so many types of barrier methods, like condoms and stuff, kinda like birth control pills.
After reading a bit, I felt more confident and decided to give it a go. I talked to my girlfriend about it, and she was up for it, thank God. We agreed to take it slow and just see how it goes.
So, we started, and I tried to remember some of the things I read. I tried different techniques, and paid attention to her reactions. I have to say, it was a bit awkward at first, but we started to get the hang of it. She seemed to be enjoying it, thrashing about a bit, which was a good sign.
My notes on that
- Communication is key. Talk to your partner, for God’s sake!
- Take it slow. Don’t rush into anything.
- Safety first. Use protection.
- Pay attention to your partner’s reactions. Make sure they’re into it.
- Have fun! It’s supposed to be enjoyable.
In the end, it was a pretty good experience. We both had fun, and it definitely added something new to our sex life. I think I understand a bit more now why some men are so into oral sex. It’s a different kind of intimacy, and it can be really exciting to explore that with your partner. I’m not sure if I’m a “top” or a “bottom” or whatever, and frankly, I don’t care. It’s just about enjoying each other and having a good time.
Anyway, that’s my little adventure into the world of oral sex. It’s not rocket science, but it’s definitely worth a try if you’re curious. Just remember to be safe, communicate, and have fun. You might be surprised at how much you enjoy it.