Okay, so, about that “legs in the air” thing, I gotta tell you, it’s been a bit of a wild ride figuring this one out. When I first heard about it, I thought, “Sounds easy enough, right?” But boy, was I in for a surprise. I remember the first time my partner and I decided to give it a go, it was kind of a comedy of errors.
We started with me lying down on the bed. My partner got on their back, and I was supposed to get my legs up in the air. Seemed simple, but keeping them steady and not feeling like I was about to do an unintentional somersault was a challenge. We tried propping my legs up with some pillows, but that just made the whole setup look like a pillow fort had exploded on our bed.
- First attempt: Pillows everywhere.
- Second attempt: I nearly kicked a lamp.
Then there was the whole coordination part. My partner was supposed to, you know, get into position, but with my legs up, it was like trying to solve a puzzle while being upside down. We tried a few different angles, but nothing seemed to click. It felt more like a workout than anything else, and let me tell you, my abs were feeling it the next day.
The Breakthrough
After a few more hilarious and somewhat frustrating attempts, we decided to take a break and, well, do a bit of research. Turns out, there’s a bit more finesse to it. We found that using a wedge pillow or a stack of firm cushions under my hips made a huge difference. It gave me the right elevation and stability. Also, communication is key. We started talking more about what felt good and what didn’t, and that helped a lot. When my partner finally got my legs on each side of their head and slowly entered me, I felt a different sensation.
Finally, we found our rhythm. With my legs up and supported, my partner could get deeper, and we were face-to-face, which was surprisingly intimate. It took some practice, but once we got the hang of it, it was pretty amazing. It’s definitely not a position for every day, but it’s a fun one to throw into the mix when you’re feeling adventurous.
So, yeah, the “legs in the air” position – it’s a bit of a journey, but once you figure it out, it’s totally worth the effort. Just make sure you’ve got some good pillows, clear communication, and maybe a sense of humor for those first few tries.
