Okay, so, I’ve been seeing this guy for a while now, and things have been… well, let’s just say I started to get some weird vibes. I mean, at first, everything seemed fine, you know? He was charming, always had something nice to say, and we had some good times. But then, I started to notice some patterns, and it got me thinking, “Is this guy actually serious, or is he just leading me on?”
So, I decided to put on my detective hat and started paying extra close attention to his behavior. And you know what? It wasn’t that hard to figure out. The first thing I did was observe how often he was initiating contact. It was almost always me! I found myself sending the first text, making the plans, you name it. He’d respond and be all sweet, but it was like he was never the one to reach out first. That was a big red flag, right there.
Then, I started paying attention to the timing of his calls and texts. It was always late at night, and usually when he wanted something from me, if you know what I mean. We’d go out sometimes, but it was almost always at night. It’s like he didn’t want to be seen in public with me during the day, which is kind of sus, don’t you think?
Another thing I tested was whether his actions matched his words. He’d say all these sweet things, like how much he liked me and how special I was. But then, his actions wouldn’t back it up. For example, he’d say he wanted to spend more time together, but then he’d always be “too busy” when I’d suggest something.
- I also tried to see if he would introduce me to his friends or family. Nope, never happened. I’d bring it up casually, and he’d always change the subject or make some excuse. It was like I was some secret he was keeping.
Conclusion
After all this, it became pretty clear that this guy was just playing games. He wasn’t serious about me, and he was just leading me on to get what he wanted. It was a bummer, but I’m glad I figured it out sooner rather than later. I mean, I was always the one going out of my way for him, but he never returned the same energy. It was a one-sided thing. No way I’m wasting my time on someone like that. I deserve better, and you should too!
