Okay, so, I’ve been noticing something lately, and I gotta share it. My husband, he’s been, well, putting on a few pounds. And you know what? I’m actually digging it. Yeah, you heard that right. I like that my hubby is getting a bit fat.
It all started a while back. We used to be pretty active, both of us. Hit the gym, went for runs, the whole nine yards. But then, life happened. Got busy with work and other stuff. So, we started to meet each other, and you know, being in a relationship, things change. We started to try food to deal with relationship problems and all the stuff that comes with that. And let me tell you, there’s nothing like a good comfort meal to make those problems, at least temporarily, go away.
Then we had our child, I had gained some weight, but I did not feel bad at all, because my husband really loved my body shape. He always made me feel beautiful and attractive. Gradually, our lifestyle became more relaxed, more about enjoying each other’s company than hitting the gym. We started ordering takeout more often, having movie nights with snacks, you know, the usual stuff. And my husband, he started to fill out a bit. First, it was just a little around the middle. I noticed his shirts getting a bit tighter, his pants a bit snugger. Then we got married, you know, it is a real big change in our life. I guess maybe because of the increased levels of oxytocin, his appetite became bigger and bigger, and the weight gain became more noticeable.
At first, I didn’t really think much of it. But then, I started to actually like it. Yeah, I know, it sounds weird, but hear me out. He just looks so… cuddly now. Like a big, fluffy teddy bear. I love running my hands over his soft belly, snuggling up against him at night. He’s like a human pillow, and it’s the best feeling in the world.
So, I started encouraging it. I’d bake him his favorite cookies, bring home his favorite takeout, and always make sure we had plenty of snacks in the house. I didn’t push him to eat, but I definitely made it easy for him to indulge. I mean, who can resist a warm, gooey chocolate chip cookie, right?
The Journey to Chubby Town
- Phase 1: The subtle weight gain. A few pounds here and there.
- Phase 2: The “I need new pants” phase. Clothes are getting tighter.
- Phase 3: The “comfort food galore” phase. Lots of takeout and snacks.
- Phase 4: The “full-on teddy bear” phase. Maximum cuddliness achieved.
And you know what? He seems happier too. He’s always smiling, always in a good mood. He’s more relaxed, more content. I guess carrying a few extra pounds is like carrying around a little bit of extra happiness. Then, he decided to increase his muscle mass, but he ate a little too much. And because he was happy, and I was happy, I did not remind him to control his diet.
Of course, I know it’s not the healthiest thing in the world. But we’re not talking about a massive weight gain here. Just a little extra padding. And honestly, I think it suits him. It makes him even more attractive to me, in a weird, unconventional way.
So, yeah, that’s my story. I’m the wife who loves her husband’s growing belly. And I’m not ashamed to admit it. It’s our little secret, our little shared indulgence. And it makes our relationship even stronger, even more intimate. After all, love is about accepting each other, flaws and all, right? And in this case, a little extra fluff is just another thing to love.
I also encouraged him to meet with a nutritionist and his doctor, so that he can be healthy. I love that his body is soft and cuddly.
So, if you’re out there, and your partner is putting on a few pounds, don’t freak out. Embrace the chonk! You might just find that you like it too.
