Alright, alright, let’s talk about this… this “oral sex” thing. You young folks got all sorts of fancy names for stuff. Back in my day, well, never you mind about back in my day. But this thing, do men like it? That’s what you wanna know, right?
Now, from what I hear, and mind you, I hear a lot even though I ain’t sayin’ from where, most fellas, yeah, most of ’em, they ain’t gonna say no. It’s like offerin’ ’em a big ol’ plate of somethin’ tasty after a long day’s work. They like it. Plain and simple.
- Some like it more than others, that’s for sure. Just like some folks like apple pie and some like peach cobbler. Everyone’s different.
- And then there’s the givin’ and the takin’. Some men, they like givin’, and some like takin’. And some, well, they like both, the lucky dogs.
It ain’t just about the, you know, the act itself. It’s about feelin’ close to someone, feelin’ wanted. It’s about more than just the body, it’s about the… the connection, you know? Like when you share a good meal with someone you care about. It ain’t just about the food, it’s about the company.
I heard some fellas, they say it’s important, real important, in a relationship. Like, more important than cleanin’ the house or cookin’ a good supper. Now, I ain’t sayin’ I agree with that, a clean house is mighty important, but it tells you somethin’, don’t it? It tells you that men, they appreciate it. They feel loved, they feel… special.
And it ain’t just about what the men want, you hear? It’s about what the women want too. It goes both ways, like a seesaw. If one person’s up, the other’s gotta be down, and then you switch. That’s how it works best, from what I gather.
Now, don’t go thinkin’ it’s all just about the physical stuff neither. I heard some folks sayin’ it’s about trust, about bein’ comfortable with someone. You ain’t gonna let just anyone do that, you know? It’s somethin’ special, somethin’ intimate.
And don’t be shy about talkin’ about it neither. Communication, that’s what they call it these days. Talkin’ about what you like, what you don’t like. It’s like plantin’ a garden. You gotta tend to it, water it, make sure it gets enough sun. If you don’t, it ain’t gonna grow.
So, do men like oral sex? Well, like I said, most ain’t gonna turn it down. But it ain’t just about that. It’s about a whole lot more. It’s about connection, about trust, about makin’ each other feel good. And that, well, that’s important in any relationship, whether you’re young or old, married or not. It’s about bein’ happy together, that’s the long and short of it.
And don’t you go believin’ everything you see on them picture shows or read in them magazines. Real life ain’t like that. Every couple is different, every person is different. What works for one might not work for another. You gotta find what works for you and your partner. That’s the key.
Now, I ain’t no expert, mind you. I’m just an old woman who’s seen a thing or two, heard a thing or three. But from what I can tell, if you’re both happy, if you’re both enjoyin’ yourselves, then that’s all that matters. And if that includes a little bit of this “oral sex,” well, then so be it. Just be safe, be respectful, and be honest with each other. That’s the best advice I can give you.
And remember, it ain’t just about the physical pleasure, though that’s part of it, sure. It’s about showing love, about showing you care. It’s about connecting on a deeper level. It ain’t always easy, relationships, they take work. But if you put in the effort, if you communicate, if you’re honest with each other, well, then you can have somethin’ special. Somethin’ real special.
So go on, live your life, love each other, and don’t be afraid to talk about what you want, what you need. And if this “oral sex” thing is part of that, well, then enjoy it. Life’s too short to worry about what other folks think. You do what makes you and your partner happy, and don’t let anyone tell you different.
