Okay, here is my sharing about using an anal plug for her:
So, a while back, my girlfriend and I were talking about spicing things up in the bedroom. We’ve tried a bunch of stuff, but we were looking for something new. That’s when she mentioned she was curious about trying an anal plug. I was a bit surprised, but also kinda excited to try it out with her.
Choosing the Right One
First thing we did was look for the right plug. We didn’t want to just jump in without knowing what we were doing. I read online that it’s important to start small, especially if you’re new to this. So we looked for a beginner-friendly one. We ended up getting a small, vibrating plug made of silicone. It seemed like a safe bet, and the material is supposed to be body-safe, which is a must.
Getting Ready
Before we actually used it, we made sure everything was clean. Hygiene is super important when you’re dealing with this kind of stuff. We cleaned the plug with some mild soap and warm water. And, of course, she made sure she was clean too. A little tip here: it’s a good idea to use a lot of lube. We found a water-based one that worked well for us.
Putting It In
The first time we tried it, we took it really slow. She was a bit nervous, and honestly, so was I. We started with a lot of foreplay to get her relaxed and aroused. Then, with plenty of lube, I gently inserted the plug. We went at her pace, stopping whenever she needed to. It was all about making sure she was comfortable and enjoying it.
- Start slow: Don’t rush it. Make sure she’s relaxed.
- Use lube: Seriously, use a lot of it.
- Communicate: Talk to each other. It makes a huge difference.
The Experience
Once it was in, she said it felt a bit strange at first, but in a good way. The vibrating feature added an extra level of sensation that she really liked. We experimented with different vibration settings to see what she enjoyed the most. It was a new kind of pleasure for her, and seeing her enjoy it was a big turn-on for me too.
Taking It Out
After a while, we decided to take it out. This was just as important as putting it in. We did it slowly and carefully, making sure there was still plenty of lube. She said taking it out felt a bit weird, but not painful. We made sure to clean the plug again after we were done.
The Aftermath
After trying it a few times, she told me that it added a whole new dimension to our sex life. It wasn’t just about the physical sensation, but also the feeling of exploring something new together. It felt like we were even closer after trying this out.
All in all, it was a positive experience for both of us. It’s definitely something we’ll continue to do. Just remember, the key is to take it slow, communicate, and make sure you’re both comfortable and enjoying it. And always, always use plenty of lube!
