Alright, so I’ve been getting a lot of questions about trying anal play for the first time. Let me tell you, it can be a bit intimidating, but it’s also super exciting. I decided to take the plunge and document my journey with what folks are calling the “best beginner anal toy.” Here’s how it went down.
First off, I did some digging. I wanted to know what was out there and what other people were saying. There’s a ton of stuff – butt plugs, anal beads, you name it. I even stumbled upon these “anal training kits,” which sounded interesting. After reading a bunch of reviews and what so-called “experts” recommend, I decided to go with a smaller, tapered butt plug. Seemed like the least scary option, you know?
Next, I had to actually get my hands on one. I checked out some online stores – Lovehoney and We-Vibe were mentioned a lot. We-Vibe even had an “Anal August” sale going on, which was tempting. But I wanted something simple to start with, nothing too fancy like those remote-controlled or Bluetooth toys. Just a basic plug.
When it finally arrived, I’ll admit, I was nervous. I made sure I had plenty of lube – that’s key, don’t forget it! I took some deep breaths, got myself relaxed, and started slow. I’m not gonna lie, it felt weird at first. But I kept going, following the advice I’d read online. I started with just the tip, then slowly worked it in more. The tapered design really helped with that.
- Take it slow: This isn’t a race. I just took my time, easing it in bit by bit.
- Use plenty of lube: Seriously, you can’t use too much. It makes everything smoother and more comfortable.
- Relax: I know it’s easier said than done, but being tense makes it harder. Deep breaths, maybe some music, whatever helps you chill.
After a few tries, I started to get the hang of it. It actually felt pretty good! I experimented with different positions, how long I left it in, all that. It was a learning process, for sure. I even tried a vibrating one later on, which was a whole different level of fun.
So, yeah, that’s my story of trying a beginner anal toy. It wasn’t as scary as I thought it would be, and it definitely opened up a new world of pleasure. If you’re curious, I say go for it! Just remember to do your research, start small, and listen to your body. You might surprise yourself with what you enjoy.
My takeaway?
Don’t be afraid to explore and try new things. Just be smart about it, use common sense, and have fun! This was way better than I expected, and I’m glad I gave it a shot.
