I guess it’s time to spill the beans about my little adventure into the world of being a professional domme. You know, it wasn’t something I planned. It just kinda happened.
It all started when I was hanging out with my friend, who’s been in the business for a while. She was telling me about her work, and I was fascinated. Not in a creepy way, but just curious, you know? She wasn’t having sex with her clients, but she was definitely in charge. I thought, “Hey, I could probably do that.”
So, I started doing some research. I read everything I could find online, especially on these pro-domme websites. They were pretty helpful in giving me an idea of what to expect. Services, equipment, the whole nine yards. I even looked inward, trying to tap into my inner domme, which felt kinda weird but also kinda cool.
First Time Jitters
- I remember my first client. I was a nervous wreck, even though I’d practiced and prepared.
- He was nervous too, which was kind of endearing. I made sure to be honest about my own nerves, and that seemed to help us both relax.
- We had talked beforehand about what we were going to do, so there were no surprises.
It was a learning experience, for sure. I learned that it’s not just about being in control, but also about reading the other person and making sure they’re comfortable. It’s a give-and-take, even though it might not seem like it at first.
It’s Not for Everyone
I’ve met other pro-dommes, and some of them are switches or even subs in their personal lives. It takes all kinds, I guess. I realized that being a pro-domme isn’t about being a certain type of person, but about being able to play a role and create an experience for someone else.
Tips for Couples
If you’re thinking about trying this with your partner, here’s my two cents:
- Talk about it. A lot. Make sure you’re both on the same page about what you want and what you’re comfortable with.
- Maybe watch some videos or read some articles together, just to get an idea of what it can look like.
- Start slow. You don’t have to go full-on dominatrix on the first try. Just dip your toes in and see how it feels.
It’s been an interesting ride, being a pro-domme. It’s not something I ever thought I’d do, but it’s been rewarding in its own way. I get to help people explore their fantasies, and I get to tap into a side of myself that I didn’t even know existed. Not a bad gig, if you ask me.
Anyway, that’s my story. Hope you found it interesting, or at least not too boring. I’m just a regular person, sharing my not-so-regular experiences. Take it or leave it, I guess.
