Okay, so, I’ve been seeing this guy, right? And things have been, you know, heating up. We’re getting more comfortable with each other, exploring new things in bed, and it’s been pretty amazing, I gotta say. But I realized there was this one area where I felt like I could step up my game: dirty talk. I mean, I wasn’t totally silent or anything, but I knew I could do better. I wanted to figure out what guys really like to hear when things are getting hot and heavy.
So, I started by, well, paying more attention. I started noticing what he responded to, what made him tick, you know? When I moaned a little louder or told him how good he felt, I could practically feel him go wild. That was a good starting point. But I wanted more. I wanted specifics.
Next, I did what any curious person would do: I asked him. It wasn’t some big, formal conversation. More like a casual, “Hey, what kind of stuff do you like to hear when we’re, uh, you know…” in between kisses. He blushed a little, which was kind of cute, but he told me. He said he loved it when I told him how much I wanted him, how he made me feel. Simple, right? But also, like, a revelation.
My Little Experiment
Armed with this new knowledge, I decided to, uh, experiment. Here’s what I did:
- Started small. I began with just a few whispered words. Things like, “That feels so good,” or “Don’t stop.” Just basic stuff to get myself comfortable with the whole talking-during-sex thing.
- Got bolder. Once I felt more at ease, I started getting a little more descriptive. I told him how much I loved the way he touched me, how he was driving me crazy. I even threw in a few moans for good measure.
- Paid attention to his reactions. This was key. I watched his body language, listened to his breathing. When I said something that really turned him on, I made a mental note of it. His reactions were like my guide, showing me what worked and what didn’t.
- Asked for feedback. Yeah, I know, it sounds weird to ask for feedback in the middle of it all, but I did. I’d whisper things like, “Do you like that?” or “Tell me what you want.” And he’d respond, sometimes with words, sometimes just by showing me.
And you know what? It worked. Like, really worked. The sex got even better, if that was even possible. It felt more intimate, more connected. And he was definitely into it. He started talking more too, telling me what he liked, which made it even hotter.
So, what’s the takeaway here? Guys like to hear that they’re doing a good job. They like to hear that you’re enjoying yourself. They like it when you tell them what you want, and how much you want them. It’s not rocket science, really. It’s just about being open, honest, and a little bit dirty. And trust me, it makes a world of difference.
