Okay, so, about this whole “do women want to be chased” thing. I decided to dive into this headfirst and see what’s what. I mean, you hear all sorts of stuff, right? Some say it’s all a game, others swear it’s the way to go. So I thought, why not just try some things out and see for myself?
First off, I tried the whole “play hard to get” vibe. You know, be a little distant, not always available, that kind of thing. I went out with a few friends, and there was this girl, let’s call her Sarah, who I thought was pretty cool. I made sure I was around, chatted her up a bit, but then I’d kind of pull back. Be busy with other stuff, not always respond to her texts right away.
- Approach: Tried to be present but not overly eager.
- Action: Engaged in conversation but then withdrew slightly.
- Observation: Sarah seemed intrigued at first, but then her interest kind of fizzled out.
Then, I flipped the script. I met another girl, let’s call her Emily, at a coffee shop. This time, I was more upfront. I told her straight up I thought she was interesting and wanted to get to know her better. I asked her out, made an effort to keep the conversation going, you know, actually showed I was interested.
- Approach: Direct and showed genuine interest.
- Action: Asked her out and made an effort to connect.
- Observation: Emily was way more receptive. We ended up going on a few dates, and it was actually pretty fun.
After that, I thought, maybe it’s not about the chase itself, but more about how you do it. So, I met this other girl, let’s say her name is Jessica, at a friend’s party. I started talking to her, and we really hit it off. I didn’t play any games, but I also didn’t rush things. I just let the conversation flow naturally, got her number, and texted her later.
- Approach: Natural and organic, no pressure.
- Action: Let things develop at their own pace.
- Observation: Jessica seemed to appreciate the no-pressure vibe. We kept talking, and it felt really good, no games, just genuine connection.
My Takeaway
So, here’s the thing I realized: It’s not really about “chasing” in the traditional sense. It’s more about showing genuine interest and respecting the other person’s feelings. Some women might like a bit of a challenge, but most, at least the ones I met, just want you to be real. They want to feel like you’re actually interested in them, not just playing a game. If you’re too aggressive or too distant, it just comes off as insincere. But if you’re yourself, and you show that you care, that’s what really matters. At least, that’s what I learned from my little experiment. Might be different for others, but hey, that’s my two cents.
