Okay, so, last weekend, I went out to a bar with my friends. It was a pretty chill night, just catching up and having a few drinks. Then, this guy came up to our table, and we started chatting. He was pretty good-looking and seemed cool, so we hit it off.
One thing led to another, and we ended up going back to his place. It was a fun night, you know, the usual one-night stand stuff. We hooked up, had some laughs, and then I crashed there for a few hours.
In the morning, I woke up and he was still asleep. I didn’t want to wake him up, so I just got dressed and left quietly. I didn’t leave a note or anything. I just wanted to sneak out without any awkward goodbyes.
Here’s the thing: I didn’t give him my number, and I didn’t get his. We didn’t exchange any contact information at all. It was a true one-night stand in the sense that there was no intention of seeing each other again. And honestly, I was totally fine with that. Actually, I felt a little bit proud of myself for being able to have a casual encounter like that and not get emotionally involved. Usually, I try to find some way to contact them later.
I went home, took a shower, and went about my day. I didn’t think much about it, and I didn’t expect him to try to contact me. It was just a one-time thing, and we both seemed to be on the same page about that.
Later that day, I met up with my friends again, and we were talking about our night. I told them about the one-night stand, and they were like, “Did you get his number?” I said no, and they were kind of surprised. They said that I usually try to get the guy’s number, even if it was just a casual thing. I never realized I did that. So, this was a new experience for me.
It’s been a few days now, and I haven’t heard from him, which is exactly what I expected. It’s kind of refreshing, actually. There’s no pressure to text him or wonder if he’s going to call. It’s just over, and we both moved on.
Some takeaways from this experience:
- It’s possible to have a one-night stand and not exchange contact information. This might seem obvious, but it was a new thing for me.
- It’s okay to have a casual encounter and not want anything more. Sometimes, a one-night stand is just a one-night stand, and that’s perfectly fine. I didn’t realize it would feel so freeing.
- No contact after a one-night stand can be a good thing. It eliminates any potential awkwardness or expectations. It’s like a clean break, and I like that feeling.
So, yeah, that’s my story about having a one-night stand and not exchanging contact information. It was a new experience for me, and I think I actually prefer it this way. No drama, no expectations, just a fun night and then moving on. That’s my new way of thinking!
